The Version of Me Who Used to Stay Inside
Outside of work and the gym, I spent my days at home in Boulder with Moby. I'd order way too much Uber Eats and binge Netflix in the name of “recharging.” Which sometimes, it really was… but honestly, a lot of the time it was just easier than putting myself out there. My job was very social, and I was exhausted of being perceived — which, for sensitive people (see also: superhumans), can quickly lead to burnout. Over time, this cocoon kinda became a cage, though I didn’t fully realize that until the fire forced me out. But more on that next week. What I will say is that the true reason my condo was so beloved is because I shared it with Moby. And now, as I sit with these newfound feelings of worry being away from Bruno for a week, I’m reminded of the heartache that comes with pure love, and also, that it's worth every bit of it.
Thought Bite
When you find yourself in your comfort zone, ask: is this real ease? Or am I hiding from being seen and sharing my gifts?
“You don’t have to wait until you love yourself to let the world in. Sometimes letting the world in is how you begin to love yourself.”
From the Road
Babes, this newsletter is a day late. Why? I've been in Cartagena! I'm writing this from an insanely comfy bed in San Agustín, a restored colonial mansion, and I can’t stop thinking about how, if you told me four years ago that my life would look like this… I would've said you had me confused with someone else. Someone much cooler, much braver young woman.
The truth is, though, this was always who I was meant to be. Deep down, she was always here.
The Current
Did you know 86% of solo travelers are female?
More women than ever are booking solo trips, proving we’re ready to step out of comfort zones. If you're feeling done with numbing routines and craving real life... Some of the top trending destinations for solo female travelers are Peru, Morocco, and Vietnam. I wrote a solo-female traveler's diary on a homestay I did with an indigenous family in the Peruvian Andes that changed my life. Click below to read it and get some solo-adventure inspiration (especially if you're an animal lover like me.)
In the Flow: Knowing Where to Go
The more I travel, the more I realize: it’s never just about the destination — it’s about the season you’re in. Been playing with a little something behind the scenes to help you feel clear before you even grab your passport.
